Books by Dr. Jessica Borelli
Nature Meets Nurture
Doan & Borelli, 2022
Written by Stacey Doan and Borelli, is an accessible, go-to resource for parents who are eager for access to the latest science behind parenting and biology. The last few decades have witnessed an explosion of scientific research on biological development, but we know that genetics are not destiny and that parenting has a powerful impact on children’s development.
This book is designed to leave parents empowered by understanding and armed with simple, easy-to-implement strategies they can use today with their child.
Reviews for Nature Meets Nurture
“A MUST Read”
“This book is a must read if you are trying to develop resilient kids. The manner in which the research and evidence is presented is very easy to understand and isn't meant for just people with psychology degrees. It is easily accessible for every parent to read and get into. It provides insight on how your genetics alone isn't what develops a child's personality and behavior, but the way in which you raise your child plays a very important role as well.
I would definitely recommend this book to new parents who are afraid or unsure of how to handle raising a child. There are also sections at the end of the chapter where it basically summarizes what you have just read in the chapter so that it can stay fresh in your mind as you move onto the next chapter. They also include personal anecdotes which help you relate and connect with the book and authors even more. It also helps that they are mothers themselves.”
— Alina, Parent
“Very Insightful”
“This book is not only a great and easy read but it also offers very insightful advice and help on parenting. After reading just the first chapter, "Parenting, Stress, and the Shaping of Children's Biology" I was sucked in by how informational the book was and it helped give me an idea of how I would want to parent and raise my kids if I ever have any in the future. Also, the information in this book is widely supported by scientific facts, and the advice it offers seems much more credible than some of the information that you might come across as you browse the web or on social media sites.
Fortunately, through the information and advice I received from this book I have an idea of how to lower a child's stress factor and raise them in a more healthy environment. This is a must-read for those who need advice on how to parent and raise kids to be more independent and stress-free.”
— Shane, Parent
Relational Savoring
Coming January 2024
Using Guided Reflection to Strengthen Relationships and Improve Outcomes in Therapy (2024): This book provides an overview of the theory, science behind, and strategy of relational savoring, a brief, strengths-based prevention and intervention strategy grounded in attachment theory and positive psychology.
Written for therapists, counselors, or educators, this accessible book provides step-by-step instructions and clinical examples of how to use relational savoring in a wide variety of clients. Readers will finish the book having thoroughly internalized the theoretical model and the technique.
“Truly Revelatory”
“Relational Savoring is truly revelatory, showing through both narrative accounts and research evidence that an explicit focus on positive aspects of relationships can enhance thriving, even for those who have not had a large share of such. Via vivid first-person narratives and a careful review of research—all based on attachment theory—Borelli makes a convincing—and moving—case.
Among other features, this book shows that early trauma is not a blueprint for later-life suffering. In fact, despite far too much “doom and gloom” coverage these days on the supposedly permanent effects of early maltreatment, a sensitive focus on interactions that were truly validating can help to turn the tide.”
Stephen P. Hinshaw, PhD
“Highly creative, intellectually stimulating”
“Jessica Borelli has crafted a brilliant and important book, filled with deep insights into the conceptual underpinnings, clinical applications, and psychosocial benefits of relational savoring. The text is a rich tapestry that blends enlightening case material, foundational attachment theory, compelling research studies, and astute observation in highly creative, intellectually stimulating, and clinically useful ways. I strongly recommend this groundbreaking book to scholars, practitioners, and students alike—for truly there is something invaluable here for everyone.”
Fred B. Bryant, PhD
“A pleasure to read”
“This wise and very readable book offers new and experienced clinicians a fresh, practical, and very useful perspective to overcome blocks in the therapeutic process and promote emotional growth. Jessica Borelli is a gifted clinician and rigorous researcher whose relational savoring approach offers hope, joy, and supportive avenues to self-understanding. Intervention strategies are described clearly, easy to implement, and effective. The book is a pleasure to read. I strongly recommend it as a very valuable professional and personal resource.”
Alicia F. Lieberman
What to expect from Relational Savoring
A fresh Approach
In this groundbreaking work, Dr. Borelli provides a comprehensive overview of the theory, science, and strategies behind relational savoring. This brief yet powerful prevention and intervention strategy, rooted in attachment theory and positive psychology, offers therapists, counselors, and educators a fresh approach to strengthening relationships and improving outcomes in therapy.
for a Variety of Clients
Relational Savoring isn't just a concept; it's a hands-on tool that can be applied across a diverse spectrum of clients. Dr. Borelli's book equips readers to integrate relational savoring into their practice, fostering positive outcomes and deeper connections with those they serve.
A Blueprint for Connection
Navigate the intricate landscape of relational savoring with ease as Dr. Borelli presents step-by-step instructions and illuminating clinical examples. Whether you're a seasoned professional or a newcomer to the field, this accessible book guides you through the technique, ensuring a deep understanding of the theoretical model and its practical application.